December 9, 2021
My city has become a metropolis of automobiles, traffic jams, and parking tickets. The gentrification, and constant development of condo’s have transplants moving here in droves. The term rush hour no longer just applies to the cars, but to the actual people on the sidewalks. Certain times of the day just taking a walk requires detour routes to avoid the crowds. Driving through the streets has a feeling of combativeness and my car is the only one that has somewhere to go syndrome. A smart detour to the freeways use to allow for a quick and easy sail from one section of the city to the other. Everyone has figured that out so these pathways also are congested and the line of cars just creep along rather than glide. This totally undermines the idea of quick and easy travel altogether. On some occasions I will take the scenic route which adds additional time to my drive, however in the long run I get to rediscover the beauty of the city. With a little time and patience I can take in the vast array of people as well as the new hot spots that have bloomed.
This also applies to intimacy’s in regards to relationships, or how you choose to pursue them. As you know I fly the purple glitter flag for women to own their sexuality. The way that you choose to express yourself is of course totally up to you. The keyword in that statement being choice. Society, Pop culture, music, and some men influence the perception that using sex to get ahead or to make a mark is the option available to women. Owning your sexuality is indeed powerful, although the impact that is made is much more effective when the spiritual part is engaged along with the physical. Identifying the importance of all of your personal attributes for yourself is very necessary. Once you are fully comfortable and aware of what makes you you, then you can better present those parts of yourself. Once you have mentally and spiritually compiled the complete package offering physical affection up front no longer feels like it’s a mandatory requirement to fit in or get to the second date. You are more than your body, and you shouldn’t feel pressured to have sex with anyone in the hopes of making them like you.
Believe in yourself unequivocally and know the you as a person are a gift in itself. Allow sex to be a way to introduce intimacies into the relationship or reward depending on the situation. We all have superpowers that are inherited at birth. It’s our duty and right to find those and develop them inside out, rather than outside in. Knowing for yourself what you have to offer another person has to be determined by you, and only you before getting involved with someone else. Nurturing these parts of yourself will ingrain them into the fiber of your soul, and they will shine through with little or no effort of your own. Now if sex happens to be a super power for you than by all means that’s nothing to be ashamed of or a fact that needs to be hidden. Feel free to let your freak flag fly. Just keep in mind that using inter-course as a freeway to connect with another won’t always guarantee that you arrive to your desired destination quickly or at all. In a lot of cases this method cheats you out of being explored in other ways, and sometimes marks you as the good time girl with no commitment on the horizon. Just be prepared to suffer the consequences of your actions free of laying the blame at the other