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Being the object of someone’s desire can be a wonderful feeling. Especially when the attention is healthy and positive. Imagine receiving flowers for no reason at all. Or how special it makes you feel when you’re being wined and dined. Receiving a foot massage when you arrive home, or just before bed. All of those gestures are deeply desired by most of us. Everyone wants to be fawned over even if some of us won’t admit that fact. There is nothing like having a round of applause given in your honor. Pride and Joy fill you up, just like it’s your birthday.

However, being the center of attention can also have a negative connotation. A lot of you have admirers that you’re not even aware of. Folks who love who you are and what you do from a far. These types of people will never express to you how they really feel about you, but their actions show their true heart. The masses label this behavior as hateration. I prefer to put a more positive spin on this type of behavior when I encounter it. Instead of allowing a negative reaction towards me from another person reduce how I view myself. I absorb that energy and channel it into motivation. Quite frankly there is a very simple method to the madness when you change your perception of hater’s.

The folks that choose to put down others to boost themselves are really your fans. There’s something about you that your secret admirer covets. Understanding that the other person is really insecure in themselves, and they wish that they could stand in your light. So the next time that you learn that you have a new fan don’t become upset, and return their attention with more negativity. Instead remain composed and lady like knowing who you are at the core of you, and that no matter what anyone outside of you says they will never change your view of you unless you give them the power.


Knowing and loving you is the best shield against anything negative that may come your way. In addition, to not letting anyone rattle your cage just start a fan page, and on low days replay all of that attention to boost your mood and star level. Good energy will always attract onlooker, some will have a genuine interest in you, and others will just want to get close to take your flare apart. Use the best tool in your possession which is a mirror and pay compliments to yourself on a regular basis. Then turn the volume down on all bitter comments that come your way, and replace them with your individually crafted soundtrack!