Business or Pleasure????
June 14, 2020
The beginning of a fresh relationship is like that first warm breeze of spring after a cold lonely winter. Everything is so lovely, exciting, and new! You are so into your significant other that everything that they do is adorable and cute. Just watching them walk across the room is an aphrodisiac. Lovemaking becomes as necessary as breathing.
You have become accustomed to enjoying and exploring one another bodies, likes, and dislikes automatically. Turning and returning to the frequency of friction until the vibes become perfect. Now that the rhythm has becomes established, practiced, performed to perfection you can do ti with little or no effort at all. The two of you now share a secret language where you understand what a certain look or sound means. Positions of delight have been identified and rehearsed like a well-choreographed dance routine.
Intimacy has become something that is scheduled rather than acted on out of passion. Moans of ecstasy that once erupted from the bedroom have been transferred into grunts silenced by irritation over worry that the kids will hear. Interest in pleasing one another has long left the room, and now all that is left is a sense of obligation. The lingerie chest barley gets opened anymore now that familiarity has set in. After arriving home from work after a long day just slipping into the first comfortable soft outfit seems the easiest. Lighting candles, playing soft music, and putting on a sexy outfit now feels like working a part time job.
Closeness has become all business and no pleasure. To find that rapport again, now is the perfect time to introduce some new tricks, toys, role playing, and or new practices into the union could really spice things up. Identifying what attracted you to your mate in the first place will allow some tenderness to shine through. Participating in new acts of foreplay as well as changing the perception from duty to longing will replenish the appetites.
How will you bring pleasure back?